3. Don’t wait for spontaneity.
It’s ok to let go of the idea of spontaneity. Sometimes you just have to schedule it.
I get that most of us crave spontaneity in our sex life. And there is nothing wrong with that.
I think all marriages could benefit from injecting some spontaneity into it.
The problem is, we will often wait around for the spontaneous moment to arrive, and it never does. Life gets in the way of spontaneity.
If finding moments of spontaneity is evading you, then I recommend scheduling in time for intimacy.
My husband and I have a standing date on the weekends. So, even if we don’t get around to intimacy during the week, we always make time for it on the weekends.
Find a day that works and schedule it in.
The next step is essential for me.
Amazing advice!!!!!! Thank u
Thank you Steve!
Thank you so much tammy greene am not yet married but am planning to get married this year and i know if i follow these tips my marriage won’t be a mess thank you, thank you so much
You are so welcome
Great info published to my benefit
This is such great information even for long term dating couples. Reading this made me take a long breath for once and say, ‘I think we might make it’. This inspired me so much! Thank you!
Wow! Thank you so much for taking a minute to write that and let me know. You have made my day. I’m so happy to hear that you found the information helpful. That’s wonderful!
Thanks so much Tammy, really helpful
Thank you, this is really great advice!
Thank you. Glad you found it helpful!
“For men, sex is their way of showing love and connecting”
For many or most men, in my opinion, sex is their way of Feeling love and connecting.
Well said Mike!
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This (#6) sounds like a nice idea, but….
From my perspective (male/husband) I feel a little guilty, and disappointed (in my performance) if my wife doesn’t orgasm. From my wife’s side, I know she feels frustrated if/when she’s not able to climax. She does the vast majority of the time, but occasionally it just doesn’t happen.
I certainly can’t speak for women, but as a man, when we hear, “It’s ok honey, it was still nice….” we know that really means they’re frustrated and unsatisfied
Love hearing from the male perspective. Totally understand what you are saying and can relate in my relationship. I think the important thing to remember is that when that a woman’s body is delicate and complicated and that a whole bunch of things needs to be working together to help her climax. Yes, it can be frustrating for both parties, but it’s ok. Neither party needs to feel bad. The more pressure that is put on the climax, oftentimes makes it harder to do so.
All these advices mentioned have been my experience with my wife.
I want to thank you for the opportunity of making understand woman and the environmental matters a lot. Time slot for intimacy just something to try out us now.
Good advice and a nice reminder for us to tweak a few things we already knew but had let slip a little.
We could all use a little reminder sometimes 🙂