6 Secrets To Break Down Barriers In The Bedroom

4. Get comfortable

It may sound basic, but if you are getting ready to be intimate, make sure you are comfortable.

The idea is to break thru any barriers that are going to arise that will make it difficult for you to relax.

Thinking, “I’m cold,” or “my back is hurting” during moments of intimacy, could derail your ability to stay connected to the moment.

Try to eliminate all of the little things that can throw off your ability to relax and enjoy yourself.

Find a cozy spot.  Warm up the room if you are cold (or put on warm socks and a robe).  Cool the room down if you are hot.

Fluff the pillows 🙂  Whatever it takes to get comfortable.

And, be sure that the positions that you choose are comfortable as well.  Get creative. What can be used to help you find a comfortable position?  Pillows, chairs, footstools, etc. . .

Whatever it takes.  Get comfortable!

The next step is the hardest for me.




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18 thoughts on “6 Secrets To Break Down Barriers In The Bedroom

      1. Thank you so much tammy greene am not yet married but am planning to get married this year and i know if i follow these tips my marriage won’t be a mess thank you, thank you so much

  1. This is such great information even for long term dating couples. Reading this made me take a long breath for once and say, ‘I think we might make it’. This inspired me so much! Thank you!

  2. “For men, sex is their way of showing love and connecting”

    For many or most men, in my opinion, sex is their way of Feeling love and connecting.

  3. This (#6) sounds like a nice idea, but….
    From my perspective (male/husband) I feel a little guilty, and disappointed (in my performance) if my wife doesn’t orgasm. From my wife’s side, I know she feels frustrated if/when she’s not able to climax. She does the vast majority of the time, but occasionally it just doesn’t happen.
    I certainly can’t speak for women, but as a man, when we hear, “It’s ok honey, it was still nice….” we know that really means they’re frustrated and unsatisfied

    1. Love hearing from the male perspective. Totally understand what you are saying and can relate in my relationship. I think the important thing to remember is that when that a woman’s body is delicate and complicated and that a whole bunch of things needs to be working together to help her climax. Yes, it can be frustrating for both parties, but it’s ok. Neither party needs to feel bad. The more pressure that is put on the climax, oftentimes makes it harder to do so.

  4. All these advices mentioned have been my experience with my wife.
    I want to thank you for the opportunity of making understand woman and the environmental matters a lot. Time slot for intimacy just something to try out us now.

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